Want to know if the guy you are interested is gay like you or not? In this post we share 10 tips to get the most accurate answer.
In a society that being gay is not much valued, trying to act like a straight guy is the common thing we see most gay guys usually do. We cannot blame those guy for acting like a straight and most of the time tell other people that they are straight. In more serious cases, some gays say that they hate gay. It is all is to blame the society that give less value to gay people.
Meanwhile, some gay guys never realized that they them-self are gay. It may be because of they are too much isolated from the gay society. Education on gay is needed in this case.
It sounds like it is very hard to identify who is or is not gay but in fact it is not that hard since they can never hide 100 percent of their real identity. Here are 10 most effective ways to know if that guy is gay or not:
#1 Look at his eyes! He likes staring at handsome men
Noone can avoid staring at handsome men or beautiful woman but straight people like staring at the opposite sex. If he is straight, he will like to stare at beautiful women but if he usually stares at handsome men, the no doubt he must be gay. The real answer is as easy as observing his eye so keep your eyes on him!
#2 He doesn't enjoy talking about girl stuffs
When a group of straight men gather they usually start the topic of girls, hot girls, having sex with girls... I know all of you guys know this. Imagine if you are also in that group, would you be interested in these topics? I bet not. Observe him when he is in a group of straight men discussion. Does he enjoy the topics?
#3 He likes to satisfy attractive men
Naturally, straight men do anything to satisfy a girl he is flirting. Like those straight guys, gay guys likes to satisfy attractive men. Satisfying here include being helpful to someone, make someone happy by telling jokes...
#4 His Facebook friends are full of men and gays
Facebook may be a good place to start your observation. Most of gay people are well acting as straight outside but fail to do it on social network. He may added a lot of hot gay guys or hot men as friends. He may also like many pages of male athlete, male celeb, male models.
* Be warned that some guys like those pages just because they want to get inspired to build their own body, or to get the hot look like those celebs.
#5 He had a lot of female friends in his childhood
Ask him about his childhood and his friends. Most gay guys had a lot of female friends in his childhood.
#6 He gets very touchy with other men
It is very obvious when he is drunk. When straight guys get drunk, he usually snuggle up with beautiful girl staying near him. In contrary, gay guys may show his affection to other men who stay near. He may say or do something noticeable.
#7 He knows a lot of male celebrities
Do you remember most of the male celebs rather than female ones? Just turn the tv on and watch together, ask him if he knows both female or male celebs in the show. For this point, it would be difficult for those who have no interest in knowing celebrities.
#8 He avoid talking about gay
He may be afraid if someone else get to know he is gay when talking about about gay.
#9 He watch gay porn or read gay websites
You may have a chance to use his computer and don't miss the chance to know what he likes to surf. You should not violate his privacy. The easiest way is to type something in the address bar of his browser with letter G. If it loads like Gay Sex or Gay news... it clearly show that he usually search for these keywords. He may search for new gay porn video to watch or gay websites to enjoy reading in his free time.
#10 He often crashes in his friend's places
It should be suspicious when a guy usually sleep in his friend's places very often. It is very easy for a guys to have affair with another man than with woman since nobody think it's strange that two men sleeps with each other.
Never assume that a man is gay too fast even if that guy is the same as what we mention above. You may need sometimes to learn more about him.
